Intersting Interview with Rahul Kohli (Jack Spheer)

Please allow me to chime in and give my thoughts on this.

At least in my personal experience on social media, the bad behavior of Supercorps FAR outweigh those of Karamels. There's no denying that there are bad eggs in both fandoms but Karamels tend to police themselves better and swiftly call out any wrongdoers whereas Supercorps appear to disregard (dare I say even condone) such behavior - and therein lies the difference.

I agree with Kelly in that Karamel vitriol is aimed towards Supercorp, and Supercorp alone (Karamels are always on the defensive because Supercorps constantly attack Mon-El). But I have seen so many instances of Supercorps going after cast/crew and their families. Again, just my experience. It's easy for Karamels to lord their ship over non-canons (and I believe they have a better footing to stand on - their ship IS canon), but they spread positivity for the most part and only push back when attacked (which is to be expected).

"As for the slavery bit, does that mean people who owned slaves in the past get a free pass because, as you said, they "came from a society where that was ok"? So as long as society accepts something that makes it ok?"

Hindsight is always preferential when dealing with touchy subjects like this. According to that logic,
everyone who owned slaves before the Emancipation should be condemned (including our Founding Fathers and Presidents). All our ancestors who had slaves when it was widely practiced should not be accorded any respect whatsoever regardless of their contributions to modern society. Notice how condescending that sounds?

(Along the same vein, given that Mon-El detractors always bring up the slaveowner issue, where's the outcry towards M'gann? She participated in GENOCIDE and should not be allowed redemption, correct? Might as well throw in Kara into the lot as well, since we should judge everybody by the sins of their fathers.)

But I digress. Fact is, Supercorp was specifically called out by a widely-respected actor for being toxic, racist, nasty, hooligans. Rahul was a guest star for only 1 episode and was harassed enough to have formed this opinion. Imagine what the cast and crew must think of Supercorp at this point. They needs to stamp out the toxicity within their ranks if they want public perception to change because it is reflecting poorly on the whole Supergirl fandom. Just imagine some bad egg turn up at SDCC spewing hate and being called out on an even bigger public stage... how embarrassing.

So far this has been a rather healthy discussion, so lets try and keep it in that lane.

Can we agree that all of ships have some bad fans with in them? can we also agree that all of the ships also have some respectful fans among them? If we can agree on those 2 things, can we perhaps instead of the fan base being split among ships, maybe we all simply need to start calling out bad fans asking them to keep it respectful and not start stuff? How I define a bad fan, someone that is disrespectful to the cast, other fans or the show in general.

1 persons fun is anothers hell. It is completely ok to have a difference of opinion, its ok to agree to disagree. Its is very respectful to also allow people of a difference of opinion there moments to celebrate their favorites.

I dont understand the need to sully the other; sure it might score you a few 'internet cool points', but what about the person you just disparaged? how do they feel? or do their feelings not matter? If you find your opinions in a schism dont engage in a 'last person to post win bout'; simply try and steer the conversation to something more palatable for everyone involved. Is there simply no way for everyone to have fun together?

I would simply like to see a little more civility from all fans, diffusing arguments and getting people to calm down. if someone simply wont calm down, send them to read this

@Kelly

I have seen plenty of #Karamel vitriol towards #Supercorp AND actors and their families (and vice versa). Let's please not act like there aren't bad eggs within the KM fandom who, like SC, take things way too far.

That's just it though, your social media experiences do not speak for everyone else's twitter/tumblr experiences. It appears you've had your fair share of awful SC interactions, whereas I've had my fair share of awful KM interactions. I think our experiences all depends on which side of the 'shipping spectrum' we fall closer to.

I agree, ships in fandoms really make it hard to fully enjoy a show/movie/etc. As for the "one is at least actually happening on the show", although true, it doesn't mean people can't ship non-canon ships. Non-canon shipping has been around for ages and fans invest their time into pairings ('real' or not) that they can relate to.

#Karamel -- annoying, homophobic, racist, childish
#Supercorp -- annoying, childish, quick to name-calling, broken records

(btw I don't find this to be true of the entire fandoms, just some of the shippers within them)

As far as the abuse stuff, there are abuse survivors who have spoken out about how the character's actions/certain scenes remind them of the awful things they themselves went through. Not everyone's experience of abuse is the same. Abuse comes in many shapes and forms (as I'm certain you're aware of as per your internship). And to discredit those survivors who have spoken out against some of the karamel scenes is disrespectful on your part.
As for the slavery bit, does that mean people who owned slaves in the past get a free pass because, as you said, they "came from a society where that was ok"? So as long as society accepts something that makes it ok? That's nonsense and you know it. The character himself said he never agreed with slavery, but yet the writers decided to have him do nothing about it (personally that's the part that bothers me).

The mute and block buttons are you best friends when it comes to social media. I have some SCs muted alongside KMs and even some Sanvers fans. Like you, I hope my opinion and views of the fandoms doesn't offend anyone too much (I'm sure I've ticked off someone somewhere lol). The entirety of our fandom is being narrowed down to the actions of these two groups and it's shameful.

I don't see why our posts should be deleted (or be banned), we're being respectful towards each other and only exchanging opinions on the topic of the video.

#Karamel vitriol is towards #Supercorp, not actors, not their families, not a random person that will be doing the panel that happened to have been the interviewer from ET that was part of the "Duets" episode and would of course bring up Kara and Mon-el's relationship, it was a part of the episode.

That is FAR different from what I have seen from #Supercorp fans on Twitter and Tumblr, FAR DIFFERENT....and to equate them in any way is ridiculous.

I despise the entire issue of "ships" I think they tear apart fan bases and are full of people that truly need to get a grip on reality.

But, in comparing these two particular "ships"....one is at least actually happening on the show, whereas the other is never going to happen so why spend so much time thinking, arguing, and spending time berating these people that put their hearts and souls into this series.

IMO, and this is just my IMO...people can agree with it or not, but this is how I look at it.

#Karamel -- annoying...
#Supercorp -- disrespectful to people that actually have had to endure abuse from a boyfriend, spouse, etc, and it drives me nuts when people equate this with anything people who have actually been abused have gone through. Absolutely nothing from this show has come even close to showing abuse in a relationship and it utterly ridiculous to think otherwise. As far as the slavery bit, that is just as ridiculous....its a show about a guy who came from a society where that was ok, not knowing any better, and changed....as far as the abuse cracks.... Having done my internship for my Sociology minor in college at a Women's cottage for abused spouses, girlfriends, etc.....I know what it looks like and this isn't it.....unbelievable ridiculous, emo driven farce that has grown into as the video states, a toxic, ridiculous wave of anger and rudeness. Though the two ships are a problem, to equate them in any way is unsubstantiated melarkey.

I know some here are involved with #Supercorp, that's fine you've been pretty respectful from what I've seen...as far as Twitter, I simply mute everyone that has either of the ships in their name, bio, etc....and it has made my time on Twitter much better. But it doesn't change the fact that the fandom as a whole gets judged because of these two ships, and i really wish both would go away. Again, my opinion, and if it offends anyone. Well....the true fandom of this show has been offended enough by both.

This will be the last I speak on it here, I don't want posts to be deleted or be banned...hopefully this post will be allowed to stay up because it simply gives my opinion.

I am on twitter, I will say this is a stark difference between KM fans and SC fans. I have friends over on twitter from each ship, but I find the nastiness tends to come from the SC side

https://twitter.com/karadadvers/status/881108377371324416

you dont see KM fans posting stuff like this. SC fans are actually asking each other to ambush and trap cast/producers into making them feel bad about working on the show at cons.

I'm on twitter (and tumblr) too. And the amount of vitriol that I see coming out of BOTH sides of the fandom is alarming. I'm sorry that you find more hate from the SC side but (as I don't care for Mon-El as a character) I find the disgusting childish behavior comes from the KM side.

I don't understand how those questions, if asked, would be an ambush/trap? Cons, although meant to be fun, are also meant to allow dialogue and interaction between fans and cast/crew. I'm sure the producers/writers are at least a bit aware of the opinions surrounding certain characters. If fans have legitimate concerns about their favorite show, wouldn't a convention be a great place for q&a as it affords a non-shipper biased audience?

The entire fandom is being judged over all of this, and it is ridiculous.

And it sort of degrades those of us who are fans who don't take part in the...chicanery if I can put a word to it, Kelly

The Karamel shippers do not help the situation one bit by constantly arguing with #Supercorp shippers anywhere and anytime they can.

Well I support both Karamel and Supercorp, but am not rooting for one over the other and losing my mind over this. Sometimes social media can lead to total mental instability.

He isn't the only one, Dean Cain, Melissa herself, her sister, the showrunners on their Saturn win, and most recently Leanne Aguilera who is hosting the panel for Supergirl and Riverdale...

if it were one time, one person, one incident, it wouldn't be a big deal....but its not.

The entire fandom is being judged over all of this, and it is ridiculous.

The Karamel shippers do not help the situation one bit by constantly arguing with #Supercorp shippers anywhere and anytime they can.

I am on twitter, I will say this is a stark difference between KM fans and SC fans. I have friends over on twitter from each ship, but I find the nastiness tends to come from the SC side

https://twitter.com/karadadvers/status/881108377371324416

you dont see KM fans posting stuff like this. SC fans are actually asking each other to ambush and trap cast/producers into making them feel bad about working on the show at cons.

Wow! Okay... The experience overshadowed his working with Supergirl?

Well, that is sad!


I hope the fans take a step back this season... And not use aphorisms of morality (which you really cannot judge from twitter or from a show or even from a brief interaction) to beat down people.

In other notes: Is he British? Or Australian?

Okay.. Google says British.

What makes this even sadder is that a lot of the negativity surrounding his 'arrival' wasn't about him personally, but rather his character's relationship to Lena Luthor. The 'backlash' wasn't about Jack Spheer interfering with the idea of SuperCorp (especially since it was known he would only be around for 1 ep) but rather it was about him being used as a big 'no homo' in regards to Lena.

Which goes to show you how a bunch of crazed SJW extreme snowflakes can RUIN things. I think Kelly can somehow relate to this given all the problems she has seen on social media, and for that matter myself as well. I don't even follow the #Supergirl on Twitter.

It's such a pity that his experience with the fandom wasn't initially a good one. He got so much love and support from the fans both before and after his ep, but to hear that the negativity he received from some has overshadowed the good truly makes me sad for him.

What makes this even sadder is that a lot of the negativity surrounding his 'arrival' wasn't about him personally, but rather his character's relationship to Lena Luthor. The 'backlash' wasn't about Jack Spheer interfering with the idea of SuperCorp (especially since it was known he would only be around for 1 ep) but rather it was about him being used as a big 'no homo' in regards to Lena. The fact that he felt the negativity on a personal level is upsetting to me.

But I'm a firm believer in not judging a group based on the actions of a few. Lots of large fandoms have some form of toxicity to them, that's nothing new. I find that SCs tend to form a mob mentality in terms of opinions and actions while KMs focus more on blindly obsessing over the actor/character. Both fandoms are extremely vocal and that in itself just adds fuel to the flames.